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Parasha Vayera: Receiving the Promises of God in His Timing

VAYERA (And He Appeared)
Genesis 18:1–22:24; 2 Kings 4:1–37; Luke 1:26–38, 24:36–53

“The Lord appeared to Abraham near the great trees of Mamre while he was sitting at the entrance to his tent in the heat of the day.”  (Genesis 18:1)

Abraham and the Three Angels-James Tissot

Abraham and the Three Angels, by James Tissot

Last week, in Parasha Lech Lecha (Go Forth!), God commanded Abraham to leave his native land and go to the Land He promised.

Parasha Vayera opens with the Lord appearing to Abraham as he sat in his tent door in the heat of the day.  Jewish sages believe that this visit from the Lord occurred while Abraham convalesced after his circumcision at 99 years old.

Abraham delighted in offering hospitality to these strangers.  Even though he didn’t know who they were, he gave them his best!

The Word of God promises that as we give, so shall it be given unto us in good measure. When we bless others, we plant seeds of blessing that will return into our own lives.

“A generous person will prosper; whoever refreshes others will be refreshed.” (Proverbs 11:25)

Orthodox Jewish man prays at the Kotel (Western Wall) in Jerusalem.
The white paper between the stones are prayer requests by worshipers.

Praying, Western (Wailing) Wall.

Praying at the Western (Wailing) Wall.

Hospitality seems to be a lost art in some cultures, especially in the West
where the pace of life doesn’t easily lend itself to making time for all that is involved in caring for people in our homes.

In Israel, people may drop over at any time, and you need to be prepared to offer them hospitality.  It is a cultural expectation in this society.

Even the Brit Chadashah (New Testament) encourages us to show hospitality to strangers:  “Be hospitable to one another without grumbling.”  (1 Peter 4:9)

We might even entertain angels unawares!

The Book of Hebrews exhorts us to “let brotherly love continue. Do not neglect to show hospitality to strangers, for by this some have entertained angels without knowing it.  (Hebrews 13:1–2)

And, in fact, the three men that Abraham entertained were angels.

Although the word used in Hebrew is anashim (men), it is clear from the context that two are angels and one is the Lord.


A kosher McDonald’s in Ashkelon, Israel

Rabbinic Dietary Laws

The food that Abraham and Sarah prepared — bread, curd, milk, and a calf — seemed to be eaten together at the same meal.

“He then brought some curds and milk and the calf that had been prepared, and set these before them. While they ate, he stood near them under a tree.’” (Genesis 18:8)

However, in today’s Orthodox traditions, dairy and meat products must be separated.  This developed from the command in Deuteronomy 14:21:  “Do not cook a young goat in its mother’s milk.”

This separation is an extra-Biblical tradition that observant Jews follow as a way of preventing the actual commandment in Deuteronomy from being broken.

For that reason, at kosher restaurants in Israel and around the world, meat and milk products are strictly separated, to the point where some Jewish restaurants do not serve any dairy products whatsoever, and some do not serve meat.

Sarah and Abraham Hosting Three Angels-Providence Lithograph Company

Sarah and Abraham Hosting Three Angels, the Providence Lithograph Company

But here we read that even Abraham and the Lord Himself, as well as angels ate milk and meat together!

Some Rabbis will state (depending on which one you speak with) that Abraham waited either four hours, two hours, or 30 minutes between serving the milk and meat. Still, Scripture is silent on this point.

Yeshua (Jesus) taught against following traditions that contradict the Word of God or would cause us to disobey it.

Nevertheless, Yeshua may have kept this tradition, since it does not contradict the Word of God, and failure to follow this expectation would have set Him apart in an entirely unfavorable way, making it difficult for people to receive Him.

Mo’adim – God’s Appointed Times and Promises Fulfilled

“Is anything too hard for the Lord? I will return to you at the appointed time (mo’ed) next year and Sarah shall have a son.”  (Genesis 18:14)

After sharing a meal together with Abraham, the angel made an outrageous promise to both him and Sarah: next year, at the appointed time (mo’ed), they would have a son.

The word mo’ed (or mo’adim in the plural form) is used to describe the appointed festival and remembrance times in Leviticus 23.  In English, these times are loosely translated as feasts of the Lord, but this is a poor translation, since one is actually a fast.

The mo’adim are special times that God has chosen or appointed for a specific purpose. In this case, that purpose is the fulfillment of God’s promise to give Abraham and Sarah a son.

Sarah’s initial reaction to this promise was to laugh to herself because she was well beyond childbearing age.

To this God responded, “Is anything too hard for the Lord?” (Genesis 18:14)

There may be promises that we have received from the Lord that perhaps seem impossible; however, we should be encouraged by the words of Yeshua who reminded us, “Everything is possible for him who believes.”  (Mark 9:23)


The birth of Isaac and the of Yeshua were both at set times (mo’adim).

In the Brit Chadashah (New Testament), we see another important mo’ed or set time.  

An angel came to a young, Jewish woman named Miryam (Mary) to tell her that she would conceive without having known a man intimately, by the power of the Ruach HaKodesh (Holy Spirit).

Furthermore, her son would be called Yeshua (Salvation), and He would reign eternally over the house of Jacob/Israel from the throne of His father David.

While this may seem outside the realm of possibility, the angel told Miryam that “nothing will be impossible with God.”  (Luke 1:37)

The same God who parted the Red Sea can truly make a way where there is no way, if we will only believe.  But it must happen in His way and His time, not our way on our schedule.  Our job is to wait in hope, faith, and expectation until the set time (mo’ed) arrives.

And we can also look forward to yet another set time (mo’ed) when God — who allowed a temporary blindness to come upon His Jewish People so that the fullness of the Gentiles may come in — will remove that blindness.  Then all Israel will be saved.

How we long for that day!


Further on in this Torah portion, we read that Sarah does give birth to a son with Abraham as the father (who is now 100 years old) at the set time (mo’ed) of which God had spoken (Genesis 21:1–3).

Abraham named him Isaac, which means laughter, for Sarah said,

“God has brought me laughter, and everyone who hears about this will laugh with me. … Who would have said to Abraham that Sarah would nurse children? Yet I have borne him a son in his old age.”  (Genesis 21:6–7)

Let us not nullify the promises of God in our own lives through unbelief but be fully convinced that God will bring forth His promises, even those that seem not only unlikely but laughable, in His appointed time.

“He did not waver at the promise of God through unbelief; but was strengthened in faith, giving glory to God, and being fully convinced that what He had promised He was also able to perform.”  (Romans 4:20–21)

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